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080 _a159.923:316.613.4
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100 1 _aBoyatzis, Richard E.,
_eauthor.
245 1 0 _aHelping people change :
_bcoaching with compassion for lifelong learning and growth /
_cRichard Boyatzis, Melvin Smith, Ellen Van Oosten.
264 1 _aBoston, Massachusetts :
_bHarvard Business Review Press,
_c[2019]
264 4 _c©2019
300 _axiii, 233 pages :
_billustrations ;
_c25 cm
336 _atext
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337 _aunmediated
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338 _avolume
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504 _aIncludes bibliographical references (pages 199-222) and index.
505 0 0 _tHeart of helping: how to really help others learn and grow --
_tConversations that inspire: discovering what is most important --
_tCoaching with compassion: inspiring sustained, desired change --
_tAwakening the desire to change: questions that spark joy, gratitude, and curiosity --
_tSurvive and thrive: the battle in your brain --
_tpower of a personal vision: dreams, not just goals --
_tCultivating a resonant relationship: listen beyond what you hear --
_tCreating a culture of coaching or helping: pathways to transform the organization --
_tRecognizing coachable moments: seize the opportunity --
_tCall of compassion: an invitation to dream.
520 _aIn this powerful, practical book, emotional intelligence expert Richard Boyatzis and Weatherhead School of Management colleagues Melvin Smith and Ellen Van Oosten present a clear and hopeful message. The way to help someone learn and change, they say, cannot be focused primarily on problems that need to be addressed, but instead must connect to that person's positive vision of himself or herself, to an inspiring dream or goal they've long held. This is what great coaches do--they know that people draw energy from their visions and dreams for themselves, and that same energy sustains their efforts to change, even through difficult times. The authors use rich and moving real-life stories, as well as decades of original published research on coaching and helping relationships, to show how coaching others around their dreams and visions--what they call "coaching with compassion"--Opens people up to thinking creatively, helps them learn and grow in meaningful ways, and motivates them to sustain that growth far into the future. In contrast, problem-centered approaches trigger physiological responses that make a person defensive and more closed to new ideas. Filled with probing questions and exercises that encourage self-reflection, Helping People Change will forever change the way coaches, managers, teachers, parents, and all of us think about and practice what we do when we try to help.--
_cProvided by publisher.
546 _aIn English
650 0 _aPersonal coaching.
650 0 _aMentoring.
650 0 _aSelf-actualization (Psychology)
650 0 _aEmotional intelligence.
650 7 _aEmotional intelligence.
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700 1 _aVan Oosten, Ellen,
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